Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for August 28, 2005
Liturgical Year A-Cycle I
22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
by Fr. John Carney
Topic: Doing the Right Thing
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Gospel
Mt 16:21-27
Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer greatly from the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed and on the third day be raised.  Then Peter took Jesus aside and began to rebuke him, "God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to you."  He turned and said to Peter, "Get behind me, Satan! You are an obstacle to me.  You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do."


Then Jesus said to his disciples, "Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.  For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?  Or what can one give in exchange for his life?  For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father's glory, and then he will repay all according to his conduct."
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Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer greatly from the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes. There he would be killed and on the third day be raised.  It was then that Peter took Jesus aside and began to rebuke him, "God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to you."  Jesus turned and said to Peter, "Get behind me, Satan! You are an obstacle to me.  You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do."

Then Jesus said to his disciples, "Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.  For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?  Or what can one give in exchange for his life?  For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father's glory, and then he will repay all according to his conduct."

I know we’re all familiar with the temptation of Jesus in the desert.  On the first Sunday of Lent each year, we hear about that.  Jesus is about to begin his public ministry and in preparation for that he goes into the desert where he fasts and prays for forty days.  At the end of this fasting and preparation period, the devil appears to him and tempts him.  First, he tempts Jesus with food.  Jesus is obviously hungry, so the devil tempts him with the comfort of food.  Then the devil takes him up on a high mountain and he tempts Jesus with immortality.  He says, “Throw yourself down and your angels will catch you.”  Finally, the devil shows him all the kingdoms of the world and he says, “If you fall down and worship me then these kingdoms will be yours.”  He tempts him with wealth and power.  Of course, Jesus resists these temptations.  But interestingly that scripture ends with words that say something like, “after this, the devil left him for a time waiting a favorable opportunity”. 

Perhaps this was the next favorable opportunity for the devil to use someone to tempt Jesus.  He used Peter, Jesus’ dear friend and confidant.  Now the setting, of course, of this gospel is important to keep in mind as well.  Last week we heard one of the hinge, perhaps the hinge point of Matthew’s gospel.  Everything that Jesus had done to that point led up to the question, “Who do you say that I am?”  Of course, the disciples said, “Well, some say Elijah; one of the prophets; John the Baptist.”  However, Peter says, “You are the Christ, the Messiah, The Son of the living God.”  Of course, Jesus is delighted with Peter’s response and he goes on to say, “You are Simon Bar-Jonah.  You are Peter, the rock upon which I will build my church and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.  Whatever you bind will be bound.  Whatever you loose will be loosed.”

However, today we see Peter going from head of the class, to class clown.  Because when Jesus continues this dialog with his disciples he says, “Now must the Son of Man go to Jerusalem and there he will suffer at the hands of the elders and chief priests.  He will be put to death and he will rise again on the third day.”  Peter then rebukes him.  He takes him aside and rebukes him.  Rebuke means to criticize or reprove sharply; to reprimand.  Older versions use;(I love this old word we used to hear) that Peter took him aside to remonstrate with him.  Remonstrate means to reason or plead in protest, to present an objection.  Then, in other words, what he was saying to Jesus was, “No, you can’t suffer.  You’re the Messiah.”  Jesus becomes angry with him.  “Get behind me you Satan, for you are thinking not as God does but as man does.  You are an obstacle to me.” 

Satan; there are many meanings to Satan.  It means adversary, hinderer, tempter, accuser, or enemy.  Those are not the hallmarks of a good friend.  Jesus is angry and no doubt Peter hurt Jesus by attempting to keep him from doing what he came to do; to suffer and to die, to do that so that we might have eternal life.  He was especially hurt because it’s his friend who tempts him, who tries to take him off the path of righteousness.  Instead of accepting and supporting Jesus in his messianic mission, Peter discourages him, even rebukes him because he wants Jesus to be his kind of Messiah.  He wants Jesus to be comfortable.  He wants everything to go smoothly.  In effect he is saying, “Look Lord, don’t do the right thing, do what is comfortable, easy.  The main thing is that you avoid suffering at all costs.”

That sounds familiar to us.  We live in a day and an age where we think we can actually get through this life without suffering.  There’s a nurse at LAMC who gets frustrated with patients who refuse to accept their suffering.  He goes in and regardless of their religion or lack thereof, he says to many of them, “Is this the hardest thing you’ve ever done in your life, this dying, this suffering?”  Inevitably, they say, “Yes.”  He says, “Then how foolish you are to waste it.  How can you waste the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do; it must have some meaning.  It must have something that you need.”  I’m sure he’s converted many.  I’ve got a few calls from him to see someone before they die.  What we do is we conform ourselves to this age as the scripture says by avoiding suffering and also by tempting those, even those we love, to avoid suffering.  Romans 12 says, “I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God to offer your body as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God.  Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your minds that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and pleasing and perfect."

We must be careful, all of us, never to do what Peter did, to tempt others to avoid doing the right thing. Yet, frankly, it happens all of the time.  Not long ago a man came to see me and he said, “I really need to talk to you.  I’ve been carrying around a terrible burden for many years.”  He said, “Several years ago my granddaughter came up to me and she said, ‘Dad, I’m pregnant.’ She came to me because she trusted me.  She knows I’m a good Christian and she wanted my advice and help.  Now Father, you have to understand that she was about to start college and she’s a brilliant girl.  Her whole life was in front of her.  It was a life filled with promise, of success, and good things.  Frankly, this pregnancy would have interfered with all those things had she carried the child to term.  I told her, ‘Well, you do what’s right, what you think is right and I’ll support you.’  And she had an abortion. I’ve been carrying it around for years.  Father, did I do the right thing?”  I said, “Why don’t you answer that.”  He says, “No, I didn’t.” 

I’m learning it’s always better to ask that question back at someone because when we hear the truth from our own lips, it’s more effective, isn’t it?  He says, “No, I did the wrong thing and I’m sorry.”  I said, “Well, God can forgive you. If you want God’s forgiveness, it’s there.  His mercy extends to everyone.”  What he did though, simply put, he did what Peter did.  He told his granddaughter whom he loved, ‘I want life to be easy for you, comfortable.  I don’t want you to suffer in any way.’ 

Another example is a lady who would see me all the time. She’d say, “I give my daughter birth control pills.”  She was fifteen or something.  “I don’t want her to be sexually active but, just in case.  Am I doing the right thing?”  I said, “Well what do you think?”  She went on and I said, “NO, YOU’RE NOT DOING THE RIGHT THING.  You’re doing the wrong thing.”  Every month she’d see me and ask, “Am I doing the right thing?”  I’d say, “What part of NO can’t you understand?  Are you fighting with the N or the O?  Here, let me help you.”  She conformed herself and her daughter to the age.  What do you think her daughter thought?  “Why is Mom doing this?  She doesn’t trust me.  I guess it’s okay if I do whatever I want to.” 

Now, I can’t quote a bishop who said this but I know some bishops have said this, “I know Father So-and-so cannot be trusted with children but there’s such a shortage of priests.  Besides, if I remove him, word might get out and bring discredit on the Church and on me.”  We all know that has happened; they were conforming themselves to this age.  Some of the leaders of our Church have not done the right thing and we have all suffered as a result.

Finally, recently a high school teenager came up to me and said, “You know I have a good friend who’s using methamphetamine, meth and I’m worried about him.  It’s changing him.  He’s not the person he used to be and I’m afraid he could die from this terrible thing.  I’ve confronted him but he won’t listen to me and I thought about telling his parents but I don’t want to ‘rat him out’ because he’ll know who told them and I’ll lose his friendship.”  I said, “Are you more concerned that your friend will no longer be your friend?  What will you think at his funeral?  You’re not doing the right thing.  You’re conforming yourself to the fear, the pressure of the age.” 

It is all about comfort and ease of life and the absolute need to avoid suffering at any cost.  Frankly, what we want is salvation ‘on the cheap’. It’s not for sale and it’s certainly not cheap.  What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?  You know, Peter didn’t get it.  He wanted a messiah who was a political, military economic leader, not a suffering messiah.  Interestingly, in the first reading, the prophet Jeremiah got it but didn’t like it.  “You duped me Lord and I let you dupe me.”  It goes on to say: As a result of doing the right thing and speaking for God Jeremiah complains that he suffers derision and reproach all the time.  “I say to myself, ‘I will speak his name no more.’”

Peter didn’t get it.  Jeremiah got it but he didn’t like it.  I hope we get it.  I hope we understand that we have to do the right thing if we are to follow Christ-not the easy thing, not the popular thing, not the convenient thing, but the right thing.  It’s a principle and we’re men and women of principle because we have a God of principle.  Never should any of us ever betray those we love by giving them advice or even by being silent when they need our help.  Be a loving parent, a good friend, a loving sibling, a good boyfriend or girlfriend.  Be a good spouse.  Never be an adversary, a hinderer, a tempter, an accuser or an enemy.

In Philippians we read:

Whatever things are true whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy meditate on these things and do them as well. 
We pray with Paul through Christ our Lord.

Amen