Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for July 22, 2007
Liturgical Year C - Cycle I
16th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. Joshua Nioni
Topic: Hospitality
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Reading I
Gn18:1-10a

The LORD appeared to Abraham by the terebinth of Mamre, as he sat in the entrance of his tent, while the day was growing hot.  Looking up, Abraham saw three men standing nearby.  When he saw them, he ran from the entrance of the tent to greet them; and bowing to the ground, he said: “Sir, if I may ask you this favor, please do not go on past your servant.  Let some water be brought, that you may bathe your feet, and then rest yourselves under the tree.  Now that you have come this close to your servant, let me bring you a little food, that you may refresh yourselves; and afterward you may go on your way.”  The men replied, “Very well, do as you have said.”
 
Abraham hastened into the tent and told Sarah, “Quick, three measures of fine flour! Knead it and make rolls.”  He ran to the herd, picked out a tender, choice steer, and gave it to a servant, who quickly prepared it.  Then Abraham got some curds and milk, as well as the steer that had been prepared, and set these before the three men; and he waited on them under the tree while they ate.
 
They asked Abraham, “Where is your wife Sarah?” He replied, “There in the tent.”  One of them said, “I will surely return to you about this time next year, and Sarah will then have a son.”
 
Gospel
Lk 10:38-42

Jesus entered a village  where a woman whose name was Martha welcomed him. She had a sister named Mary who sat beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak.  Martha, burdened with much serving, came to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving?  Tell her to help me.”  The Lord said to her in reply, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things.  There is need of only one thing.  Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”
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This scripture today is about hospitality.  I would like you to think about how hospitable you are and see if maybe there is a need for a few corrections here and there.  We will see.  The first reading as we heard, tied in so well with the Gospel.  In the first reading, we had Abraham and Sarah who seemingly are doing very well economically, but they had no heir, they have no son.  what do we see? We see three men visiting them.  What do they do?  They offer them hospitality.  In a way, it is a time to relax, to rest, and to have, a fine meal.  You know when you are tired you need that.  This is what they were given.  When the three men left, they promised Abraham the birth of a child. I think that was really good news to Abraham.  That we see is the blessings of hospitality.  In the letter to the Hebrews, when speaking about this act of hospitality, it says this, “Do not neglect hospitality, for through it some have unknowingly entertained angels.”  So, there you are.  You never know. 
 
In the Gospel, we see another example of hospitality.  Martha and Mary welcome Jesus into their home.  When you welcome someone in your home, what do you do?  As we all know, there is no one-way to be hospitable.  In fact, there are many expressions of hospitality and these include welcoming the person, listening to the person, and serving the person.  This is what we see happening in the Gospel today.  While each expression is valuable, none is complete in itself, nor an end in itself.  It is an expression.  The hospitality in its deepest meaning, I would say makes possible that personal encounter, which is what we see happening in the Gospel today.  This is the very kind that Mary did with Jesus, for Jesus.  Jesus responds to this act as the better part.  It is here that we see that very profound and fundamental meaning of hospitality.  It entails welcoming the other, surrendering to the other, hearing the other, the message that comes from the other.  Facilitating, I would say, that personal encounter.  In a way, you meet the person, facilitating the personal encounter. 
 
On the other hand, Martha seemed to be anxious and worried, losing sight of the guest, in a way wrapped up completely in her tasks, which are good.  What do we see Mary doing?  Mary, in a way, surrendered to listening to the guest.  In real life, you’ll agree with me, that there are many Marthas, these are people who are activity centered, they work to do things, to do this, that, and the other.  You all know for instance, let me give an example.  You have for instance a task. If you give it to so and so, you know that it will be done but once you give it to the other guy, it will take ages.  If you give it to me, I’m telling you it would take ages. There are Marthas in life and there are also Marys.  These are the very people who are, in a way, contemplating.  They do very little. 
 
Shall I ask you a very personal question?  Will you allow me to do that?  Now ask yourselves, are you a Martha or a Mary, or both?  What are you?  Don’t answer me, answer your God. 
 
The story of Martha and Mary, I would say, it conveys a double lesson to us about us in relation to our God.  What do we say?  If we are never a Martha nothing is going to get done, you will agree with me.  However, if we are never a Mary, in the presence of God, very little is ever going to happen, and I qualify this, in the right way.   We need those quite times before our God and we also need those active moments for God.  The Mary moments and the Martha moments are essential in our lives.
 
May we ask today that the good Lord may grant us to strive for balance, which is what we need.  May God help us.